Love is not just a feeling it is a decision we make and
stand by because feelings come and go but for you to stay in marriage as
confessed during your wedding rituals for better for worst, in sickness and in
health, for richer or poorer, it takes a great deal of decision making to
overcome circumstances in marriage. Arsenal football club readily comes to
mind, they’ve gone 8years without winning any major trophy under coach Arsene
“Baba Ijebu” Wenger yet when you go to Arsenal’s home ground “D EMIRATE” to watch
a match you see a big bold banner “IN ARSENE WE TRUST” that shows great love
from everyone involved with Arsenal club from the coach’s assistants,
ex-players, management, and fans.
For them it is more than just a feeling, it
is a decision they are ready to stand by, just imagine a couple still searching
for their first child after eight long years yet they stay together in
happiness and faith, just feelings cannot keep them that long. At Chelsea
football club England, patience is rare, the owner Roman Ambrohimhovic acts
according to how he feels so that explains the change in coaches since he
arrived the club in 2003 until date (2013), eight in total so far. In marriages
where love is based on feelings there are high possibilities of separation or
divorce like we’ve seen with Chelsea down the years.
Life is beautiful when it is lived in the right way and
sometimes situations revolves around things we can relate to, like politics in
government can be found in family, loyalty in the office to your boss can be
related to your love for a particular product or brand but for me everything
revolves around football. Falling in love with football was easy because of the
beautiful way it is played and the emotion it evolves, I know you’ll want to
ask; does beautiful include teams like stoke, park the bus Chelsea of old or
the rugged Italian league of old? not exactly but part of the whole I guess or
like we say in Nigeria “all join”.
I want to take you on a ride on the similarities of
Marriage and Football, now fasten your seat belts as we travel on this exciting
journey: (to be continued on Thursday...watch out)
Written by Ezeali Isaac Chijioke- A creative writer and seasoned sport analyst, who finds pleasure in talking sports objectively. You can watch him on Sports Bit on Super Screen Television or read his creative write ups here on jennyspot. Follow the author on facebook and on twitter.
Written by Ezeali Isaac Chijioke- A creative writer and seasoned sport analyst, who finds pleasure in talking sports objectively. You can watch him on Sports Bit on Super Screen Television or read his creative write ups here on jennyspot. Follow the author on facebook and on twitter.
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